So much around you feels/seems like hard, unforgiving rock sometimes.
You see, no matter what kind of new "expanded" reality you are experiencing, many of the people you live/work with, a number of your friends and family members are still living in the old patterns. And doing so quite happily might We add.
And that can cause many clashes. Plus, the situation may bother you infinitely more than it does them, because you "know better". Still, it does not mean you are (any) better than them, it simply means you know something they do not.
Frustrations often arise when you forget that, in many ways, you often cohabit with others in a parallel universe that looks strangely the same.
You can only do what you can do. There is no use beating your head against the well or butting heads with others when someone else's lack of forethought/ organization/ compassion/ understanding/ knowingness makes part of your personal or work life unpleasant or challenging.
Harsh thoughts against them or stressing yourself about elements that are beyond your control are futile and will only aggravate you further, especially if the others are just carrying on their merry way, oblivious to the whole thing. You know that already. At least We think you do.
As challenging as it may sound, gentleness, softness is what is required at these times.
It is about surrendering to what is and letting go of the ego's desire to control everything, and not about "thinking happy thoughts about fluffy white clouds".
This is about you. Well, your reactions to everything that happens to you in this heightened experience world of yours. Sometimes it does take a while to put into practice new truths revealed by your higher self and your connection to All that is.
It does not mean that you did anything wrong. Quite often, these are simply times where discrepancies between those who get it and those who don't are more obvious.
And on another level, they are times where the differences between who you were and who you have become are more enhanced.
Remember, not all of your inner transformations are visible, and not everybody is happy that you have changed. Not that there is anything wrong with the new you. The new you is absolutely fantastic!
Through your metamorphosis, they may very well sense that the world is changing. Only they want it to remain the same. Not because they love the world as it is, but because it feels safer/better for them to stay in an ill-fitting or uncomfortable reality that they know than it is to move to a better, more open world that they know nothing or very little about. Fear is a virus that causes paralysis.
It is OK, really. Everyone should be allowed to move at his or her own pace.
Have soft compassion towards yourself and others. It has been an eventful Earthly year for all of you on so many different levels.
Be your own soft place to fall. Be willing to share that soft place with others when appropriate.
Certain things will become a lot easier with time. Just give it softness and time.
This is all.
Much Love and Softness to Everyone.
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Not everybody is happy in how you have changed for the better. But it needs to happen as the universe dictates it. Thank you for the thought.
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